How Porn Star Sex And Real Life Sex Are Different

Everyone wants to be a porn star and there is no doubt that we can learn a lot from porn stars. The problem with porn nowadays is that it’staking over for sex education in general. We talked about making love, not porn in a previous blog post and we’d like to revisit that idea again. We see a lot of correspondence coming in talking about Cougars and sex, but a lot of the younger cubs who are writing in have definitely taken their cues from pornography.

Sex in the real world differs quite a bit from sex in the porn star world, and while most people would concede that fact, there aren’t many people who put that into practice. It’s one thing to know that something isn’t the same, but our expectations are a little skewed thanks to pornography and we need to adjust them. For one, you need to not take your moves from porn moves.

Porn stars are paid to make things look like they’re feeling good and while they might actually be enjoying themselves quite a bit, there’s definitely some acting going on. Pornography is also filled with ridiculous amounts of stops and starts while the males try to get themselves to stay hard and the females position themselves appropriately. If you have ever had sex which has had too many stops and starts you’ll know that this kills the mood in a big, bad way.

There is also the fact that porn stars are made to look a certain way, they make sure that everything is in place and so their sex looks a lot more erotic than regular sex would. Granted, while you’re in the moment it’s not going to matter that the lighting isn’t perfect or from this angle you can’t see your Cougar’s face completely, but aesthetically pornography has sex down to an art form.

The other thing is that while women in porn seem to be open to anything, their contracts have been negotiated beforehand and they know exactly what they’re doing. There are no surprises really for the performers in pornography when it comes to what sex acts that they’ll be performing,so if you want to be able to do it like a porn star you need to be sure that your Cougar is well aware of what you have planned. The more you talk about these things, the more readily she’ll be willing to do some of them with you.

One thing that you need to keep in mind though, and this is something which has come up more than a couple times in the emails that we’ve received, is that most women are not going to want you to cum on their faces. The percentage of women who like being treated like that is incredibly low and as such you need to be respectful of where they want you to empty your load. You can even ask during the sex or before it if it’s okay for you to cum inside of them. Asking can stop a fight from happening later and trust us, give your Cougar a chance to say where she wants it and she’s going to tell you.

For a quick and completely SFW (safe for work) overview of how real life sex differs from porn star sex, give the video below a watch.